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    August 02

    心靈電波

     
    試試看！
    取兩個冷凍包子放在盤子裡1003.GIF1006.GIF...口裡唸唸有詞...
    「快變熱，我想吃！快變熱，我想吃！」
    唸他個十遍、百遍...看包子會不會真的變熱....
     
    當然不會！
     
     
    但我們卻常常這樣....
    在伴侶的耳邊...面前唸唸有詞....
    要他們如何如何！想想...有效嗎？
    要包子變熱...得拿到電鍋或微波爐裡...靠電流..    磁波處理...
    同樣的...希望伴侶如何如何...用的也不該是嘴....
    而該是一番如電流、似磁波的心意....

    再三嘮叨聽得見...卻少有它的作用....
    一番心意看不見...卻有它的力量存在！
     

     
    男人很喜歡跟女人講道理...要女人理性一點....
    卻忘了...當初自己不就迷上女人的感性....

    女人很喜歡對男人發脾氣...要男人感性一點....
    卻忘了...當初自己不就愛上男人的理性....

    講道理與發脾氣...乃是惡質的溝通....
    男人跟女人竟藉此在表情達意...難怪愛得越深鬧得越凶....
    許多時候...小聲贏大聲...無聲勝有聲！
     

     
    跟愛人溝通...輕聲委婉絕對強過扯嗓怒吼....
    與伴侶相處...心意交流絕對賽過千言萬語....
    每個心靈都嚮往自主、自由、自在....
    沒人愛被擰著耳朵...指著鼻子限制作為....
    有緣廝守...必有相互吸引之處....
    因此...應該放大伴侶的優點...縮小對方的缺失....
    以讚賞..感謝替代嫌惡..責罵....

    在平時笑笑說，
    在急時慢慢言，
    在氣時輕輕講！
     

     用心靈電波去溫暖雙方...那一個冷凍包子不變熱....
     
     
     
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    Comments (8)

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    Picture of Anonymous
    小猪 wrote:
    写的真好呀,偶也要好好学习学习........
    Aug. 4
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    天空自在的想 wrote:
    不好意思,我忘了你这种人是没有享受快乐的权利的.你的小DD永远也没有用武之地.藏起来吧.不对还是拿掉好些,这样就可以尽情的享受别的小DD带给你的快乐了.
    Aug. 3
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    清の旋舞 wrote:
    好用心的男人啊~哦不，是男孩吧？笑~ 写的很好呢~ 来看看你啦~
    Aug. 2
    Picture of Anonymous
    Fighting-Helen wrote:
    在平时笑笑说；
    在急是慢慢言；
    在气是轻轻讲；
    ……
    helen觉得还有点：吵架时，把耳朵关上！
    因为气话总是伤人的，笑~
    Aug. 2
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    feith wrote:
    寫的真好......
    我要記得不要碎碎唸...
    無聲勝有聲....^ ^
    Aug. 2
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    ♡阿怡♡ wrote:
    一番心意看不見...卻有它的力量存在！
    喜欢这句
    Aug. 2
    Picture of Anonymous
    -Oo妮妮oO- wrote:
    很有道理哦....

    以后我要少点唠叨了
    Aug. 2
    Picture of Anonymous
    ·悦悦· wrote:
    哈
    你的猫咪真是很漂亮很可爱啊！
    嘿嘿。。
    Aug. 2

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